Showing posts with label West City Soccer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label West City Soccer. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Catch-Up

Well, lots has been going on--but isn't that always the case? The text here won't be lengthy, for fear I won't get to the pics/videos.

In no particular order:

West City Soccer is going GREAT! I can't say enough great things about this. We've been doing some little 5-minute scrimmages near the end of the sessions, and E can get into the mix a little. She uses two crutches to be faster, but when doing so, she doesn't handle the ball as well with her feet and uses her crutch tips as "extra feet" (I keep telling her that's EXTRA HANDS!). She has recently tried using one crutch, and her footwork is better that way--but sometimes she's really uncomfortable and uncertain in her movements. We keep mixing up the zero-one-two crutch use, and it's been great.

Snow Day (again!)! Dad ended up driving off with E's crutches in the car, so there was lots of hand-holding in this thick, wet, heavy snow. E did try to make it up the neighbor's hill, but after about 6 (good) steps, she was tired. I loved the fact that we saw some of our older neighbors--I haven't seen these girls in a long while, and they sure have grown up! The main focus was on making a snowman--in this case, with some Hawaiian Flair!



The kids went to a Pig Reading--With Daisy the Reading Pig!



Elena earned her Firefly award for teaching her Daisy troop something--she chose Chess!



And at the following meeting, she chose to NOT use her crutches to get in the building. I'm guessing this little hill is a ~30 degree grade--and she did it both TO and FROM (downhill) the meeting, and never fell. Good job E! (She also went up a curb, without crutches, when walking to a birthday party a few weeks ago).



Ballet Mentor Recaps: my pictures were SO DARK, b/c I didn't figure out how to use the light switch until the end. So, text will have to do. Ms. C and Elena worked on a few moves after warm-up. Warm-up usually consists of talking, running around, and then some sitting and stretching while working on turn-out while sitting in long-sit. Long-sit (sitting up straight with your legs out straight) is hard for Elena, I think b/c of her tone AND contractures. She tends to long-sit with her hands behind her, so she can lean back (try it; when you can lean back, it doesn't stretch your hamstrings as much). When E tries to touch her toes, her back rounds (again, hamstring tightness is one reason she doesn't have a straight back). I'll be interested to see improvement here.

After warm-up, Ms. C tries to get E interested in a new move(s). Maybe a story, maybe a video, and then she tries to get E to work on 1-2 moves. Today we tried (together) different foot positions (standing on a yoga mat, while holding the back of a chair as an improvised barre). E tries hard to "put her heels together and get her feet in a V" for first position, and I am seeing improvement here, and with foot turnout and knee turnout. I can see it is uncomfortable for her, but she is trying, and seems to enjoy the challenge.

Our second move was tondus. Ms. C had very good success while using this in a "step"--really, just trying to get E to walk barefooted with strike-through (where her back leg passes her other leg as she goes forward). The best success was when she put her finger in front of E's feet (way in front) and asked her to try to step on her painted fingernail. Some of those steps WERE REALLY GREAT.

Our ballet mentor meetings are about an hour; I think in this hour, I'm lucky if E gets 20 minutes of good movement. At this point, I don't really care about that--I just want it to be fun, and I want Elena to like her mentor enough to WANT to go see her, so that she's interested in learning something along the way. Personally, I think the sessions could deal with some more imagery to help E with her movements ("paint a rainbow with your hand", etc. etc.) but so far E seems to like it. I might bring some little balls next time (maybe she can try to move them/kick them with her leg/toes) b/c she really seems to like kicking/throwing/moving balls right now. Or get some gigantic paper and some chalk, and actually get her to try to stretch and write on the paper (if doing sitting stretches, for instance). Or try to get her to put her feet on painted footprints on said paper. Any ideas, send 'em along!

Watching Baryshnikov do some tondus in his dancing



Arms Wide, standing tall pose (the feet are nice and flat!), pom-poms keep it fun



I asked Viv's ballet teacher if she had thoughts of a group class where E wouldn't slow down the group too much; she thinks E would fare well in her class with two novice, shy 4-5 year olds. We'll give it a shot!

E always wants to help at home. This used to mean that everything took a billion times longer when the kids try to help me. Well, E can now be EXTRA helpful in the kitchen--here she is helping me cook dinner, by peeling the parsnips and carrots (while getting a knee immobilizer stretch).



Bonus Vivian! Her new thing is that she had decided when dressed as such, we will refer to her as Puss in Boots, complete with maraca "sword" (in a glasses-case sheath). Points for originality here.

Saturday, January 21, 2012

West City Soccer: Family Night

I asked several times previously about soccer programs for kids--Elena did one several years ago with the YMCA. She did well, but she was just starting to walk on grass with her crutches. She was very slow, and managed to get to the next activity just as everyone was finishing. E was proud of herself, though. We opted to try to work on her outside skills before trying again.

I called the local soccer league and asked if they would be open to the idea of E on the soccer pitch. They were EXTREMELY hesitant, but did not say no. Even though they didn't say it, I felt like it would have been a disaster, one that I'd have to fight for E every step of the way. I just wasn't ready for that. I rarely shy away from peer activities--but groups sports isn't something in which I can engineer success for Elena. I feel like I want Elena to be successful in gross motor activities so she can want to do more of them. A scrimmage between lots of semi-competitive kids, who run fast, kick hard, and tussle around doesn't seem like a wise place for a pint-sized kid who gets tangled in her crutches when trying to walk ALONE.

Some friends of ours told us about a family soccer program--their kids LOVED IT. I had talked to Coach West before--but the timing was terrible--outside, a school night, and would end after Elena's bedtime. The timing was all wrong.

This season, the timing is RIGHT. It's a Friday night, it's indoors, and the gym is literally a five minute drive from our house. I was still worried that it would be a bad fit--but it was the best fit we were going to have. I had played soccer with West (against his team, anyway) and he has seen Elena before. We've talked on the phone several times, months apart, regarding whether or not it was a good idea for E. West ALWAYS said it was. I wasn't sure if he would resonate with Elena--or kids--b/c on the field, he could be pretty intense.

We've been three (four?) weeks now.

WEST CITY SOCCER ROCKS!


Family night is just that--the entire family, including younger siblings and parents, all do drills together. It's not competitive; it's a workout; it's cooperative. The other kids ARE WONDERFUL to Elena, which is always a relief for me. There are about 4 other kids her age, and most of them have younger siblings and parent(s) that attend. Elena might be the only one who uses crutches, but she's not the only one who falls, or who has difficulty dribbling a ball or trying to do a drill. The other families are wonderfully inclusive, their children are curious and warm to us, and everyone enjoys themselves. The exercises ARE FANTASTIC--and are things I'd never have considered.



Elena's just another kid out there. Seriously, the first night, I almost cried when one of the other 5-7 year-olds picked E as his partner. They had to follow each other with a ball--something neither of them was particularly good at, but they BOTH challenged EACH OTHER, which was something I didn't think would happen.

West and Lily's drills are confidence building and challenging. They are fantastic for kids, for novices, and for experienced players too. I will make a list of them for another post.

Tonight, at the end of the session, we had our first scrimmage. My worst fear regarding E and soccer skills was tested.

First, the adults played--the rule was NO TALKING and no kicking the ball in the air. Then West picked some kids (the older ones, of which E is one) to come out and play with the adults. ALL the kids got touches--INCLUDING E (I WAS SO EXCITED!)--and no one fell. One of the last plays, E stopped a pass and then it got stuck between her legs. The kids all went for it--but were gentle not to push her, or kick her crutches. They eventually kicked the ball out from her--but NO ONE got hurt, and EVERYONE had a BLAST. It was the antithesis of everything I thought E's first scrimmage would be like. It was GREAT!

Thanks Coach West and Coach Lily--we'll see you next week!