Yesterday we celebrated the holiday season with some ice skating with friends!
We were so excited! Jason and I figured that it would be a lot like the time we took the girls last year--a lot of hand-holding, and two parents with sore backs. We knew they would have buckets for kids at this rink. Viv had never tried one, but Elena had. It was terribly unsuccessful, b/c she was on her toes so much in her skates while leaning on a bucket that the skate's toe picks kept her from going anywhere. Still, the kids had fun.
So we had high hopes this year. They started to fade a bit when Elena got on the ice and had a terrible time with her footing--sliding everywhere (of course! it's ice!) while her peers managed to stay upright (at least part of the time). Elena had a very hard time being upright, no matter how many hands/arms/torso we held (it was a little better with one adult holding one hand on each side). She started to get a little frustrated.
The Wall was tough
I put her on the buckets and pushed her around for a while. In the beginning, every child was just focused on staying upright they couldn't notice what was going on around them. Elena relaxed when she noticed she wasn't the only one having a difficult time skating. I also had her see how other kids were using the buckets--their feet further away from the bucket, with their legs pretty straight and them bending at the waist to lean on the buckets. E was ready to try again.
Try Again
Ride and Observe
Viv is enjoying herself
Dad Lets Go
And again and again and again.
YES YOU CAN
Bonus Vivian: Viv tries to help her classmate T after he falls. Precious!!!
Everyone LOVED skating--she got to enjoy time with her friends, neighbors, classmates--as did Vivian, who is apparently a natural on skates. It was a great time, with wonderful people, to celebrate the season, and we're so happy we got the chance to enjoy skating with friends.
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Have you tried giving Elena hockey skates (boy's skates) instead of the traditional figure skates? Since hockey skates don't have a toe pick, they wouldn't trip Elena up if she misses a step.
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Have you tried giving Elena hockey skates (boy's skates) instead of the traditional figure skates? Since hockey skates don't have a toe pick, they wouldn't trip Elena up if she misses a step.
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